“Sometimes all we can do is leave the porch light on with a key under the mat.”
That is one of the most heart-rending pieces of advice I read in a recent Huffington Post article for parents who are unwillingly estranged from their adult children. The article includes advice from five experts on family relationships and all of them encourage parents to never stop reaching out to their child.
The article reminded me of my own experience with my parents as a young adult. Although we were never estranged there was a period when I pulled away because I felt the disapproval of my parents. My youthful experiments were beyond their comprehension. I don’t know whether they were more aghast when they learned I occasionally smoked marijuana or when my mother found my birth control pills in my purse. I was no young teenager–I was 22 at the time and had a steady boyfriend. Read More